Originally Posted by
DaisyBuchanan 
It's taken a toll on me. The choice is his. I don't have to stay with him.... I keep on telling myself that I can walk away at any time. I don't have to be with an alcoholic. It gives me strength. I was able to live without him before I met him, and I'm able to live without him now. I'm an independent woman who is able to support herself.
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Give yourself permission to take a break. You were right when you said time will tell. Give it some time and watch his choices. What would happen if you stayed out of his way and watched his choices? What would you decide?