Originally Posted by
Confused757 
My children & I suffered, then someone else get the reward? (Or something like that)
Hopefully when and IF- I mean a really big IF, because he doesn't sound like a prize to me- you will be so far up the road from where you are now that you won't give a hoot about what he's doing. Right now everything is raw- it hurts. Like I said, though- he sounds like a frog- if I were you, I'd be grateful to get out and start something better for yourself. Any woman he may end with will have her hands full. The recovering alcoholics I know work on their recovery every day- it's their life. The ones who seem healthy have been in recovery for 20+ years. It's a long road. He's barely scratched the surface, and really doesn't seem to be taking it seriously. Take care of yourself. You have a gift in front of you. . .