Yea, I remember lots of 'I love you's while we were "together" & now I know that the whole time he was sleeping around behind my back. I can't believe anything he says now. It's like I was married to a complete stranger. I thought I knew him & he turned out to be someone completely different. The positive talk is nice, but sadly, I doubt that he could ever prove to me that he's changed. He'll be in FL for no one knows how long & I know that he's still talking/writing other women. He may have met them in rehab/AA but with his "sex addiction" (he admits it) I don't think that communicating with other women is helping anything.