Hi justanother. I understand your frustration. I really do. I had a friend who went through that surgery and it is really really nasty. It's highly possible that your friend went through it just to get drugs. I don't know.
Still, I worry about her not having any help with the tubes etc. Maybe I'm just a sucker. But can you forgive her just for a couple days so her incisions and her insides don't get infected etc and THEN cut her help off? I really don't think you can change those tubes on your own.
That surgery is really really bad. My friend was told, recovery from liposuction was tough. She didn't believe it could be be worse than her C-section. But it was MUCH more debilitating than a c-section.
I guess I'm just a sucker. But I know how nasty and bad that stuff is. She can probably get help somewhere else. Right? I guess you gotta be pretty angry to not help someone with tubes sticking out of their stomach, even if they are in the midst of a relapse.