We do not have children, which at this moment is a blessing.
I think the fact that I had no idea of the addiction he had for 4 years was due to the fact that he is a pharmacist and knew how to hide it and also I had started school again so my focus was not entirely there. His working situation gave him unbelievable stress and I guess any of the signs that i saw then I chalked up to that stress. But looking back on things I can see all the signs clear as day.