we're married 6 years and together 10. at times it feels like that I never knew him...but at others it seems that he never knew me enough to admit it to me. I was not angry or hurt by the addiction only by the hiding of it. I understood previously that alcohol addiction ran in his family and we kept an eye on that. I feel foolish that I thought he would never turn to prescription drugs since he is a pharmacist and had too much respect for the profession...it never even entered my head. I guess out of all this I am wounded by him wanting a divorce at this time and I feel foolish for never noticing the addiction.