I'm so sorry so I hope this helps. In my opinion when someone does this, they are really being Passive/aggressive in making sure you are punished, they want you say exactly what you did. They want you to like them better when they are drunk. They want you to compare their sober behavior with their drunken behavior and prefer them to be drunk. Oh, and it had to be your friend or it wouldn't have been nearly as effective.
I'm glad you are out of it. She went too far in trying to manipulate you by flicking the big switch of OFF!
Things will start looking up very soon for you.