If you want to live a full life,quit now.Quit for YOU primarily and for your reationship secondary.there is no instant cure to uur disease and it requires hard qork,but realistaclly here are your 2 options as i see them:
1 Quit drinking and live a full and happy life with relationships and well being.
2 Resign yourself to a life of heartache and emptiness followed by an early death or insanity.
Sorry,bad medicine i know,cruel to be kind.