Hey Heather,
Just remember this is the very first guy you met since your ex (I think thats what I read in one of your posts). I takes a lot of time to find even someone you'd like to spend a little time with, let alone a new partner or boyfriend.
Be gentle on yourself and have fun! I wish I was further along and where you are at right now.
I think you've made a lot of progress!! When you're least expecting it that one special guy will come along!!
