Tena I can to check up on you and sounds like everything is going good between you and hubs. Not for stepson but as you know this is his own journey no one can help him only he can help himself your hubby is getting it. I would be very upset about the 600 but as you said it would probably end your marriage and thats not what you want and I wouldnt want it either. His time will come I really believe in Karma. Sounds like you had a great convo with your family made me homesick for you. Glad to hear things are so good for you, you deserve it you have been through alot in the last 6 mos.