hello, and welcome
Your story sounds alot like mine..............
I knew he had a past issue with his addiction to crack believed he could overcome it.
He has children one of which we fought in court for many many years to get fully custody of .........................
and then he relapsed
his son lives with us, is aware of the relapse and knows dad is in treatment to get help.
also the mother, is an addict in and out of jail and prison, and never in the childs life as a parent.
With the 1st relapse my AH signed over temporary custody to me, and gave me his durable power of attorney.................so even if family comes up wanting to step in husband who has the legal authority to make the decisions already has and hes provided for the care of his son with me.
this is what the son wants and what dad and I want.................so far all is okay.
my heart goes out to you and your family its a rough road ................and some never get well and stay well.
I will keep you in my thoughts