i just joined and my bf is into drugs. and i wanted to know how to help him and i am big reader.
so i went to barnes and noble and found an amazing book. it really helped.
its called, "get your love one sober: alternatives to nagging, pleading, and threatening: by robert j meyers, ph.d and brend l. wolfe, ph.d
it was everything i was looking for and i am sure you are too. it helps you indentify triggers, stop enabling, communication and your behaviors. each chapter has activties that help you.
good luck. i hope this helps.