Ditto as well....I learn more about my issues and myself here; however there are threads that I find very helpful in a positive way and threads that make me aware of my anger toward my AH. I want to be respectful and fair when I deal with him and not act in a way that is clouded by resentment and anger. I have you all to thank for that attitude. We are our actions and I want to be generous, positive and fair but not be disrespected and walked on.