Prodigal,
I'm sorry. I did a poor job of making myself clear.
I was attempting to look at the thread dispassionately, as merely an example of how complex things can be.
It is sometimes unclear just who is the user and who is the usee. Who is pure and who is less so. I should have kept my thoughts to myself. It is however a great case study. Would have made great cinema verite by a European director. One of those films where you leave shaking your head and say, "Why?" Life is strange. Mix with alcohol and it is even stranger.
warren