Ugghh, sorry Lexus, once you get past this and all his stuff is gone for good then you can go back to focussing on you! I remember the day (July 4th, i'll never forget) i packed up his stuff and literally threw it at him with no bags lol. But that was the last contact, I think having no text, phone or physical contact saved my life. He called and i never called back. It will be over soon and you can thank your lucky stars you get a second chance.