Originally Posted by
lexusgirl 
he won't pay me my money.
Try viewing it as a cost you incurred due to a bad choice. Heck I may lose $75K or so if the house doesn't sell. I view it as a cost of my poor choice in who I married. If I lose money but gain peace and a better life, its worth it to me.
Originally Posted by
lexusgirl I know I need to calm down, but he has no integrity. I always get stuck with picking up everyone else's messes.
Hopefully not everyone's messes. But yup, many As exhibit little integrity. That's just the way it is.
So pick a time, call the cop, have a friend over with you if you want the support. Let him get his stuff and start moving on. You will get thru this and get to a bterr place.