Marie - when I read your post it was almost just like reading the story of MY AS...so many similarities, my son is now in jail as well waiting for sentencing, I think he will be in there a couple more months than 99% sure he will be going to prison for a year or two. It's exasperating everything these kids put up through, but you are in a great place to learn how to cope. Good luck with your son, I'll send some prayers your way for you and your whole family, your son of course included :-))