Originally Posted by
Gman813 
The more you know the better you'll be able to support him when he gets ready to seek help. And he will need help you can count on that.
Do you think that as a man and with the very hardcore attitude he has towards others with addictions that he will have a harder time admitting to needing help at all? I certainly get that feeling. It's not like I've never mentioned his drinking before, he just doesn't see it as a problem - he's certainly not shirking his fatherly duties or anything like that, and he would point to things like that if push came to shove I suppose.
I wonder if it makes any difference that he has untreated OCD.
I never even thought about any liquors we might have - I'm sure we have a bottle of Bailey's somewhere, and maybe something else. Yikes. I think they actually have a pretty high alcohol content.