I lost everything while drinking. I even got a divorce I should've/could've worked through. Sobriety is priceless, but yes, sometimes we have to lose it all to get it. Drinking ruined my life, but we only have the choices we've made.
I'm happier today. Regretful but happier. When I am reminded of the past, it is the biggest trigger, but I work through it. Life might be hard now, but it's worth it now.