Originally Posted by
katie44 
Was he implying an affair? I dont know how to handle any of this.
The only thing I know for certain is don't ask if you aren't ready for a possible negative answer. You are the only one who knows what you can handle right now.
If wondering causes you more anxiety than the worst answer you could get, then ask him if it will bring you relief. If snooping brings you relief, even though the answer may not be good, then do it. If burying your head in the sand works, do that. Do whatever causes you the least amount of pain and anxiety for this day. One day at a time.
I'm so sorry your son did this to you. It's flat out evil and I can't imagine your pain.