Originally Posted by
alterego 
I can`t attend a meeting,partly through childcare,nerves and my job is one that should not be held by a drug user..........
Here's a thought. If your job is one that should that "should not be held by a drug user" then stop using. Or quit your job. You can't attend a meeting because you don't want to attend a meeting. You can find time and excuses to use, but you can't find time to attend a meeting? BTW, I've been to countless meetings where the kids sit in the hall while the family attends the meeting. Are you telling me that you can't find a babysitter for an hour?