Hi
I just registered here. I think this is where I should be but perhaps someone could let me know if I am in the wrong place. I was with my ex husband for 14 years. He was a violent alcoholic, well he still is. I am trying to move on with my life. We are divorced I have custody of our 2 kids and I have re-married. However, I find myself still very much in his control. I am still afraid everyday and really do not know how to just "get over it." It seems like everywhere I turn or every way that I try to change things, they all go back to him running the show. I don't know, I am lost.