Originally Posted by
Lobo 
Marle,
You are right it is her problem and not mine. Sometimes I think I spend so much of myself trying to keep her on the right path and it doesn't work. It seems she is gonna do what she is gonna do. It just that since she had been doing well, she looks so much better and that makes me feel better. I have to be honest that sometimes when I feel like I am saving her I am actually saving myself. Does that make sense?
My Mom and I used to be like that. That is hard, and unhealthy for both of you.
Best thing imo, is to learn to find happiness in yourself, no matter how she is doing. Takes the pressure of you both.
It took a lot of hard work for my Mom and I do learn to do that.
:ghug3