Originally Posted by
ThreeForty22 
I really don't see a way to work through this, and with the state my dad is and has been in, there's not really a chance for normalcy anyway. I feel like he just went out of his way to screw up my life.
Work through a conversation with your dad or your feelings about his addiction?
He went out of his way to screw up his life and you were taken prisoner. Now that you know, you alone have the ability to free yourself from the sins of the past. It's all up to you and no, it isn't fair but it is what it is.
If you feel the need to free yourself of him, please first ask yourself what you stand to gain or lose.
I almost forgot... what is normal?