You are in the right place. Were all here for basically the same reason, because someone that we love and care about is an addict. We must remember you didn't cause it, you cant control, nor can you cure it. Of course your angry he's your father. My mother was an alcoholic, and my son is a drug addict. I still get angry that is all part of the process. We will never understand what is going on in the addicts mind and the battle that they endure.Maybe your father just wanted to come clean about what has been going on. Your mother well she was probably just trying to protect you. You see when addiction is involved there are always a million lies involved. Naranon is a wonderful program for you to attend, if they dont have one in your area you can try alanon. The meetings I attend there are several younger people that are experiencing the same problems. Keep coming back to this site. The people here are understanding and full of wisdom. You really need to take care of yourself.