Welcome to Sober Recovery!
Here is the Friends and Family Forum mentioned above:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ly-alcoholics/
Believe me you are doing your brother no favors at all. Put him out. As to not having a place to go............................wrong............... ............there is always the Rescue Mission in your area or The Salvation Army.
All you are doing is 'enabling' him to continue down the road of deb ilitating alcoholism.
You and your hubby might want to try some Alanon meetings. They will probably help you and your thinking immensely.
One of the things to remember is the 3 C's:
You didn't CAUSE it,
You can't CONTROL it, and
You can't Cure it.
Please keep posting and let us know how you are doing, we do care very much.
Hope to see you on the Friends and Family Forum.
Love and hugs,