Jane, you should hear my husband and 10 year old go at it! And I know it only gets worse! I thought they were going to duke it out in the middle of temple last night.
You did the right thing saying what you felt. Otherwise, it would have eaten away at you and you would have had a lot of resentment. I think as addicts, resentment plays a big part of our active addiction. I know, at least for me it did.