Originally posted by hope4always
I think the most painful hurdle to get over isn’t that we’ve lost someone we love. The painful hurdle is realizing we got duped into loving an *idea* of who they wanted us to believe they are. Had you been living with him, or had known him longer than a year, you would have come to know exactly who he really is, and he would have become unrecognizable to you.
Wow... thank you so much for this... the words you said here will help me to get through the next few difficult days... I can't thank you enough.