Originally Posted by
cherbear79 
I've been with my fiance now for over a year. We fell in love very quickly, and we never fight, and have a wonderful open relationship. But with one major problem..........
And the problem is he has a misstress and her name is Crack.
I read so many posts from women with sons or daughters or husbands who are addicts. These women did not have a choice. You do.
The biggest issue, I think, may be living a life waiting for the other shoe to drop and /or being manipulated into believing that what you do or not, say or not, will cause him to seek his mistress or not.
If this were true, then we would all have the power to cure the addict in our life.
We did not cause it. We cannot control it. And we most certainly cannot cure it.