welcome to S.R. you can find all the help & support for yourself here but as harsh as it may seem you can not find any for your addict. the addict has to take care of themselves & there is nothing you can do for him. is this really the life you want for your son & for yourself? that is the question u have to answer. there is help for him but until he is really ready for it there is nothing u can do. read around the site. others have been & are right where you are. is he worth the pain & all the insecure, ups & downs he brings in your life. keep coming back, we r here for you. prayers going up for you & him.