Our A's are charming, cunning and devious. This is what their addiction has made them become, and they have to be this way in order to survive. My AH is truly a silver tongued devil, and can have me wanting to believe everything he says in no time flat.
As we are discussing separating, he's pleading, begging, and using his denial to twist things around. Its hurts so bad, even he makes it worse because he's doing whatever it takes (manipulation, passive aggression) to make this difficult for me.
Stay strong! I feel your pain and I also am dreading this journey of separation/divorce. Will it be awful? Definitely, at least at times. But we'll make it
