i believe in meeting but i also think that some are not as good as others. i think you can have a program in your life without them. i think S.R. is a great program. also there are books in the libery that you can read. there is alot of different ways to learn how to take care of you. u can support your husband just by going to his open meetings & working your program. i am glad things are going good for you.prayers,