(((intentional)))
I don't know the answers either, but it comes down to taking care of you and your son still at home. Can you leave? I know, from reading here, that it's usually not something you may want to do, or it's not financially a choice. I would recommend getting legal advice and see where you stand...especially since you work together..is it your own business?
A lot of spouses have ended up leaving a good home, and basically starting over....tough, but when you consider YOUR sanity and peace of mind, sometimes it's what you have to do.
More will be along with some ES&H, so get comfortable and read other posts...you are definitely not alone.
Hugs and prayers!
Amy