my first post...
thanks for being here.
been SAD all day, cause it's obvious my h's addiction is accelerating and all the behaviours and attitudes are coming back. My son wanted a BD party sleepover, and I told him I can't plan one cause I never know when Dad's gonna use...
So with 2 kids in college, and one in Jr Hi, and my h insists that I'm the one that has to leave, not him, what's my next step?
I've asked him in the past to not use at home. He's respected that till lately, past 2 months I'd wake up in the morning and realize he's been using all nite...of course uses the line "it's my house, I can do whatever I want" ~Addict talk!
So I'm at a turning point, he's up to using once a week (and who knows if it's more)
Done with threats.
Done with trying to control, change him
Just want to be going on with my life and not have his attitude and addiction mess up me and the kids any more than it has.
Have always been upfront with the kids.
I need boundries. What are good boundries now when he won't leave.
Oh, yeah, minor problem, we also Work together...partners
Help!