Thanks Chino, his family said they don't want to do anything to disturb his recovery. They also think the facility has brainwashed him but they don't care as long as he stays sober. They call me a victim of his using. The person who called me these names is the administrator so I'm at a dead end of talking to normal people. I know his sobriety is all about him, I'm just wonder how one feels good about themself knowingly hurting someone they loved!