I am working hard to let go of resentment. I think I'm getting there, but I'm feeling something else. Distance, mistrust, still confused and stunned, wondering who this person is - certainly not the man I married. Wondering how it all happened. Need to quit thinking about him so much and think about myself instead.
It is amazing how so much of what we all are going through is stereotypical behavior and rolls out the same way for each of us. Wish I had known about this place three years ago!