dont get in between her and her bottom.
let go...let the natural course of her life take its path.....if you want her to get sober, that is.
last week my ex husband was sentenced to 30 days in jail for failing to provide medical insurance docs to me, as required. The judge let him suspend the sentence if he came thru with the docs and $750 by tomorrow. If he doesnt have the stuff, off he goes (She told him to bring a toothbrush if he didnt have the stuff).
Amazingly....the day after the hearing last week, he had a spiritual awkening that only a tough judge could bring and has been quite humble and responsbile. Attitude totally different, embracing AA and trying to make right.
Moral of the story is.....let her get in the trouble and discomfort that needs to take place so she will find her awakening.....