Venus, I'm going through this right now. Its very hard, the relationship has been 5 years. Things boiled to a head this weekend.
Sometimes I am strong - others, I feel so sorry for this man that is throwing his life away. I want to help, but by sticking I'm starting to realise I am losing myself.
I can't offer any advice as thats the reason I came here. I wrote what I'm going through in the alcoholism section by accident.
If anything reading the threads here is a comfort to know I'm not the only one struggling with this.
I hope things turn out well x