Originally Posted by
warholian 
St_Kurt, I would appreciate if your posts pertained to the topic at hand, instead of ripping apart specific sentences that you find to be a pet peeve. I do not know if you realize this, but the obsessive, negative, and overtly factual nature of your post is insulting and negligent to the true point of the original post. Basically - please do not pick apart the semantics of people's posts - I was not gloating about using K, I was expressing the harsh reality of the drug's seriousness. Also, although k is used for small animals, it is also used for large animals, so your points are rather moot.
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Hey warholian, I'm pretty much exactly the same person as your boyfriend. I quit drinking just over 2 months ago, after my fiance left me.
If he can stay clean for 2 weeks to a month, just one day at a time, he'll start to recognise reality again I reckon. It's terrible to be trapped in a cloud of smoke and haze and coke and drink, because it really does blind you.
I wish you guys all the best, cos it's a tough ride but I'm really enjoying life now and I'm still best mates with my ex, we've just realised we don't want to be with each other anyway.
I think what it is, is a choice - 'yes' or 'no'. I think when you gave up drugs and all that, you chose life, you decided to say 'yes' to life and all it has - vacations, seeing the world, meeting new people, exploring, discovering etc. Now what you see in him is someone who is choosing 'no' to life, cos he just can't see it any more - what he sees is bongs, rock and roll, party, tv and work and all that - but that's where it ends. It's the graveyard of ambition, that spot on the couch...
Maybe that's not it at all, but I reckon that's what it's all about, so I say to you guys - Choosing 'yes' is awesome, I hope you can find out what's going on and start to enjoy life again!
ndz