Sickatheart,
Hugs to you, I know how heartbreaking all this drama is, but it sure looks like you're working your recovery to the best advantage, for you. "Hands off the addict!"
What actually worked for my youngest son, was going to court, and being sentenced to 6 month inpatient rehab. He has been sober ever since, and it was 2 years in March.
Your daughter is EXACTLY where her H.P. wants her to be. Maybe this will be a lightbulb moment for her, if she does not get bailed out.
Hugs,