Yes...I expect too much from people at times. I was trying to get all the love and respect I missed from my parents neglect...out of my relationships today. I now realize...that is my responsibility to provide that myself...be my own parent...this is just one example.
My codie characteristics landed me back to the begining after being away from alanon for two years...I thought I was "recovered". Luckily...my process of learning humility is well underway! LOL