Originally Posted by
denny57 
I got the "bad" side because I accepted it. Who else would take the crap?
Yup DITTO!
When I allowed things in my life such as verbal & physical abuse from my X it was giving him a green light to keep on doing it! Accepted it because at the time I loved him and did not feel I deserved any better!
Guess what?!
I no longer take the blame on things that are not acceptable to me today! Makes my life much happier today! Verbal and physical abuse is not acceptable ever!
I'm sorry that you are going through this ....
