Is SR making you powerless or powerful? Is it making your life manageable or unmanageable? Yours to conclude. As for me (very new here) it is a godsend. It is not impeding on my life, it is enabling me to live it.
As far as second guessing? Screw that. I wrote a reply to an individual yesterday that I would love to have back. In all honesty, I thought I was PMing her when it's out there for the world to see. I lost no sleep over it, however. I f'd up, that's all. Open mouth, insert foot. How many words would George Bush like to have back? I wish he'd take them all back and ask for amends (sorry for the politcal comment, folks, just trying to illustrate).
Every time I write, I am prepared to have my lunch handed to me by someone far wiser. I welcome it. We learn far less from success thatn from failure. I came into this world butt naked and I'll leave it the same way. My only hope is that it might be, on the whole, just a slightly better place because warrens was here.
warrens