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Soconfused11 Anyway, about a month ago, maybe, I kicked him out as I heard he was hitting on a girl, and no doubt in my mind he would have cheated. Well I made real progress as far as packing all his things and taking them to his mom's, etc, working on me. But I didn't cut out the contact all together,
I got so tied up in someone else I didn't see that packing all HIS things wasn't MY progress. Yep, pack his things and then re-established contact - I was very consistent in my resolve.
I got off the merry-go-round and started to see my own insanity.