Seems from all the posting on here - they are mostly all lilke this.
Mine blames me for everything.. although most of his misery has been going on long before we got together.
He drinks more cause of me - of course you do cause I am (was) paying all the bills and you have more money for your entertainment -
He has never had money problems before could always look after himself - that is because you had a huge line of credit that we just paid off and are learning how much money you really don't have plus I pay all the bills and you drink yours away
etc etc
YUP seems standard .. as for your son even at that young age he can feel who is reliable in his little world and who is not. YOU are the one who is always there - Dad is not.. sorry dad everytime I looked for you I found mommy so I might as well stop looking and go straight to her - less hurt that way
shakarris