P.S. How's this for blame? My abf and I were in an argument, 2 years ago. He left the house, drinking of course, he got really drunk (him and his uncle), and he crossed the center line and hit a horse and buggy head on! He served time for that, 4 1/2 months...but here's the kicker....it was my fault, because if we hadn't been fighting, he never would have left and hit the horse!