Originally Posted by
NYC17 
I think maybe the troubles in our relationship and the fact that I was pretty honest with her about saying I don't like the person you're becoming pushed her over the edge.
No, you didn't push her into it. Unless you've been standing there pouring alcohol down her throat? Sorry, but you aren't powerful enough to cause her to do anything. None of us are. If we were, well none of us would be here now would we?
Her issues are her issues. Her choice is to deal with her issues by using alcohol. Her choices, not yours.