Originally Posted by
WantsOut 
So they are showing you that you should never turn your back on family by turing their backs on you. Cute.
Ditto on what Kerm said.
I agree with WantsOut's take on this.
You tried to set boundaries in this madness....you are no longer useful...so you are shut out.
If I set boundaries or decide I deserve better than to be used as a pawn, certain relatives decide they are "allergic" to me.
So be it.
I now have a healthy "allergy" to toxic people...no matter who they may be.
I also agree with the person who typed that "
the best thing you can do for the relationship, sometimes, IS to let it go...."