i'm so glad to see your post. and support you in your decision to wait and see. God will take care of you. pray for the best outcome for everyone involved and God will carry the rest. i send blessings to you and to all those you love. i am proud of you for your sacrifice and hard work. you be proud of you, too. in AA they call it "playing the long game" when they talk about the choices made today which bring positive outcomes weeks and months and years down the line. i believe in the long game.
take very good care. stay connected. xo