I don't think you need to be reminded, you seemed to handle it well.
What your post did was remind ME of the exact thing I need to hear. Every morning when I wake up I have been asking God to just help me let go and remember that this journey is his and nothing I do or say will make a difference. I also ask God to watch over him and help him as he sees fit.
Letting go and stepping back is hard when you love someone. Good for You!